Say what you want
Describe yourself, your relationship and what you’re looking for, in your own words.
Not who you like. Who wants the same.
Dating where you say what you want first. For singles, couples and open relationships, with verified people, no professionals, and nobody finding out.
Why not just another app?
| In the apps you know | In Tilwe | |
|---|---|---|
| Say what you want | Write it on your profile and you get banned. | It’s the first step of signing up. |
| Couples | A fake profile with two faces. | Two accounts, one card, you both decide. |
| Who’s on the other side | Fake profiles and professionals. | Age check for everyone, optional ID verification, removal the same day. |
| Who finds out | Your contacts see you, notifications say everything. | Invisible to your contacts, neutral notifications, app lock. |
What we promise
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You say openly what you want.
Desire and boundary tags on your profile, visible only to people you match with.
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You can join as a couple.
Link two accounts into one card; no message goes out unless you both agree.
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Only real people.
Age check for everyone, an optional verified badge, photo review, filters for ads and “services”.
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Nobody finds out.
Hidden from your contacts, notifications without content, Face ID lock, deletion that erases everything.
For couples
Two accounts, one card.
Link your accounts and appear together, on one shared profile. You meet people together and you decide together.
- One of you sends a code, the other accepts it.
- Talk as three or four in the same chat.
- Either of you can unlink the shared profile at any time, from your own phone.
How it works
- Step 1
- Step 2
See only people who want the same
See people and couples near you who are looking for the same as you. Your exact location is never shown.
- Step 3
Talk when you match
A chat opens only when you both want it. You share your number only if you decide to.
Safety
- Report and block from any profile and any chat.
- Phone numbers and links are held back in first messages.
- Your data stays in the European Union.
Reports are read by people and acted on within hours.
Questions
How is it different from the apps you know?
In the apps you know, you see faces first and find out what the other person wants ten messages later. Here you say what you want first, you see only people who want the same, and the face comes second.
Is it for sex?
It’s for whatever you want, as long as you say it openly and everything happens with consent. Some people want a relationship, some want company, some want something more casual. Here you say it from the start, and nobody judges you.
Do I need ID?
Not necessarily. Everyone takes a quick age check with a selfie, which doesn’t identify you and isn’t stored. If the selfie isn’t enough, or if you want the Verified badge, you confirm your ID. We keep only the result, not the document.
What happens to my photos?
Only members see them, inside the app. They are not published anywhere else and don’t appear in search engines. They are stored privately in the European Union. In chats, a photo is sent only if the other person accepts it.
Can my contacts see it?
No. We don’t read your contacts and we never post to your social accounts. Notifications show no names or photos, and the app locks with Face ID, your fingerprint or a PIN.
How much does it cost?
It’s free to use. Tilwe Plus is an optional subscription with extras, such as Incognito and filters for verified profiles. You’ll see the prices in the App Store and Google Play.
Where is it available?
We start in Athens, in Greek and English. Adults 18+ only.
Which company runs it?
Tilwe is run by TBD, TBD. Our servers and data are in the European Union. For anything at all, write to us at [email protected].
How do I delete my account?
In the app, under Settings, or on the account deletion page. Your profile disappears straight away and your details are permanently erased within 30 days. We keep only what the law requires us to.